
Mark is 32 and an alcoholic, he has tried to fight the ‘demon drink’ for many years and has been referred to the local services more than once.
At the CAT team a few years ago he met a woman of similar age who also was in a battle with the ‘demon drink’. Mark and this woman struck up a friendship and within weeks both had stopped attending CAT and became form drinking buddies. The relationship ended when she became ill and died, Mark went on a bender.
I first met Mark when he came to me for help, at that time he was drinking a litre of vodka and a bottle of wine every night and was still managing to hold down a job, but just barely.
Mark had hit rock bottom and was ready for intervention, but due to the reconfiguration of the alcohol addiction services, I would have to refer him to what is called the ‘Initial assessment unit’, the staff that run this service are not medical or nursing professionals, but people who have been employed to direct patients to the appropriate services, after the PCT did away with the CAT team.
I was reliably informed that they would accept the referral but there was a waiting list for further assessment, I enquired about ‘home detox’ and was told that he did fit their criteria of drinking daily, but again there was a waiting list. I also found out that if he had started to reduce his alcohol intake or was only drinking 5-6 days a week he wouldn’t have been suitable for that service.
Mark was disheartened that his assessment could not take place for a few weeks yet, so we came to an agreement that he would see my weekly for support and I got him an appointment with the local NERAF and NECA team and then I looked on the web and found an organisation called ‘Team Challenge’. The organisation helps men with alcohol and drug addiction and is a religious organisation; Mark wasn’t interested when I told him about it.
I didn’t see Mark after that, he hadn’t attended our follow p sessions or the appointments set up with NECA or NERAF, but about four weeks later I received a letter from Mark, informing me he was with ‘Team Challenge’ and although finding it difficult he was determined to complete his year with them.
Today I received another letter from Mark, he has been off the alcohol now for 5 months, his health and fitness have improved remarkably and he informs me he has found ‘God’.
I will write back to Mark and congratulate him on his hard work, perseverance and strength of mind and look forward to seeing this new man when his year with team challenge has ended.
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I hate January! This January particularly!
In the last three weeks I have developed a friendship with the co-ordinator of the local ‘termination clinic’, due to the requests from patients for termination.
The decision to terminate a pregnancy is not an easy one and usually I have sympathy and understanding for the women who request this service.
Today however, that sympathy was put to the test twice!
Firstly, a young single mother’s dating scan showed she was 17+ weeks and our local hospital refused to do the procedure, which made her very angry as she said ‘don’t ya know I can feel the bairn moving’.
I asked her to wait whilst I contact a hospital close by, as I knew they accept women up to 20 weeks pregnant. I got her an appointment; coincidentally the date was her first child’s birthday and although I think 17+ weeks is too far into a pregnancy to terminate this belief has to be kept personal. I am aware that bringing another unwanted baby into her home would cause the existing child financial and emotional difficulties.
Secondly, a woman in her mid thirties, with five children, two miscarriages and four past abortions requested that I refer her for termination. This woman’s eldest child is currently living with her and is expecting a baby in the next few weeks.
I must admit I wasn’t as sympathetic with this woman who I have known for over 4 years, I asked why she had not used contraception and why after her termination last year (not arranged by me), she had not been sterilised or had an IUD fitted, she said the consultant refused!
I don’t believe her! I also didn’t believe her when she informed me she had used emergency contraception the day after the incident. Now she was on her own again as ex partner didn’t want a baby, just shag! Obviously his brains, if any, were in his balls!
I contacted my friend at the termination clinic, as to refuse this woman would mean she would just go to one of the doctors or bring another baby into a home that was already stretched to its limits.
My friend informed me that in the weeks since Christmas she had booked in over ninety women for termination. Those ninety women will come from all walks of life and some will decide to continue with their pregnancies and I will continue to put my personal beliefs to the side and refer where appropriate.
Obviously the hard work done in the practice and by the contraceptive services still falls on deaf ears!





